Phantom Quadrant presents:

Call her according to their mutual enthusiasm and share at least three things that you enjoy:

Postponing to this because of other commitments.

Chances are, someone else will also enjoy what you’re sharing.

Both will sense your sincerity.

Your choice.

If it works out, you might even like it more, so do it with no strings attached!

I often ask people that I respect to share one thing that they like in a couple of years, even if it’s not my idea. This has worked very well for us. As you have noticed, the one thing we still have each other for isn’t playing golf, going to concerts, or hiking. It’s hanging out at home doing